because i only have one child, it doesn't mean that when i have another one the love i have for my first born will lessen. it doesn't mean that i'll be torn. but it has always been at the back of my mind. how will i be able to love my children with different personalities, equally? i have only one child, so i don't know how (yet).
will i be able to learn how? i believe so. the same way my instincts guided me when i'd first known that i will soon be a mom.
i worry, but i am confident that i will overcome it. i will learn.
Hi Tna! That's how I felt when I was pregnant with my second. But, you will never be torn, different personalities and all. A mother has so much love to give. :-)
ReplyDeleteTna, buntis ka? Wow!!! :D
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I think all mothers constantly have this fear or a hint of fear of not having enough love to go around. But, dear friend, as you will eventually experience it, A MOTHER'S LOVE DOESN'T GET DIVIDED; IT MULTIPLIES. You'll see what I mean when you have your second, third, fourth, etc.
Now the real question should be, how could children from the same two parents have different personalities? I'm still baffled by this fact. :) Oh well, I guess this just makes life more exciting, huh?